Hey hey, beautiful fam 💜

It’s such a joy to welcome you to the final topic in our July series on “Becoming.” What. A. Journey. It’s been! And today?
Today is a full-on celebration of that growth. I want you to pause for a sec, hold up a mirror, and really see how far you’ve come. How are you doing? For real. How’s the journey been for you?
It’s always such a vibe having you here, week after week. As we wrap up this chapter, because yes, this is the end of this series, but not the end of your becoming.

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You might not fully see it yet, but the work you’ve been doing is changing you. Quietly. Powerfully. Beautifully.
The purpose of today’s message is to make you pause, reflect, and realize that even the messy, unfiltered parts of your growth are working.
You’re becoming more you and it’s showing. Even if no one claps. Even if you sometimes forget. Even if it’s quiet.
Becoming isn’t just internal anymore, it’s showing up in the way you live. It’s in the way your peace speaks louder than your panic.
In the choices that now reflect your alignment, not your need for approval. In the way you are, not just what you do.
Let me say this loud for the people in the back: Becoming looks good on you. You may not feel it every day. But guess what? It’s there.
It’s not loud or dramatic. It doesn’t come with a big announcement. Sometimes you just wake up and realize: You’re not who you used to be and thank God for that.

You’ve done the inner work.The unlearning. The late-night spirals.The small boundaries no one noticed. The voice you stopped silencing.

It wasn’t pretty. But it was real. And now? It’s visible. It shows when you say no without guilt. When you stop over-explaining. When you release what drains you.
You’re still in process, yes. But don’t miss this: The process is producing fruit. You’re not who you were and that shift? That subtle glow-up? That deeper presence?That’s what becoming looks like.
You’ve earned this moment. Even if you’re still figuring things out. Even if you’re in the in-between. Even if no one sees it but you.
The work you’ve done to heal, evolve, and step into who you’re meant to be, it’s showing. Not just in your smile. Not just in your style. But in the way you carry yourself.
In the way you let go of what used to hold you hostage. Growth doesn’t always feel beautiful, but it creates beauty. And yeah, you still doubt. You still cry. You still have moments where going back feels easier.

But that’s part of it.
You’re becoming through the doubt. You’re healing in real time. And that’s the raw, powerful truth of it all. It’s in the small wins: The boundary you didn’t apologize for.
The pause you took before reacting. The apology you gave or the one you stopped chasing. The moment you chose rest over hustle. The version of you that finally believes: “I am worthy”.
Week 1? You were just starting. Unsure if real change was even possible. Week 2? You sat in the mess, the in-between, the _uncomfy_ middle. Week 3? You started breaking the old, shedding what no longer aligned.

And now? You’re not finished. You’re not flawless. But you are becoming, and it looks so good on you.
Remember, growth doesn’t need an audience to be real. Becoming doesn’t have to be “complete” to be celebrated. You don’t have to “arrive” to be proud of where you are.
You’re allowed to still be figuring it out and still be powerful. You can look at yourself today and say, “I may not be there yet, but this version of me? She’s blooming. And she’s beautiful”.
This isn’t the end, it’s the start of momentum. You’ve peeled back layers. Faced hard truths. Let go. And now? You’re rising. You’re moving without waiting for permission.
You’re not shrinking. You’re not holding back. You’re becoming; boldly, beautifully, freely. And from where I stand, I can tell you with my full chest: I can see this becoming looks good on You.
You don’t need to wait for the breakthrough. You don’t need to wait for the applause. You don’t need everything to be perfect.
You’re already becoming. And it looks strong on you. It looks soft on you. It looks radiant, powerful, and real on you. Becoming has always looked good on you and it still does!
Thank you for taking this journey through Becoming with me. Thank you for showing up for yourself every week. Thank you for facing the mirror, not just chasing the finish line.
Whether you whispered through it or roared through it, you kept going. Becoming was never about being perfect. It was always about coming home to your truth, your voice, your power.
And guess what? That suits you perfectly. This is just the beginning. You started. You endured the middle. You let go of the old. And now the glow-up? It’s here.
What a month it’s been! We’re hanging up the boots on Becoming (for now), and wow, what a ride. I truly believe you’ve been enlightened, encouraged, and empowered.

Drop your thoughts in the comments about today’s write up or the entire month. Let’s celebrate together. And hey, share this with someone who needs it too.

I’ll be in the comments, reading every word.

See you next week, in a brand new month.

With love always,

#Eyistar_TheGlobalWriter 💜✨✍🏻